Another reason women choose boy or girl. Most women hoping to bear a daughter, because he wanted to dress it all out. Later, when he get older, there are girls who want to take care. While the desire for male babies are generally based on the desire to not get the risk of such excess expenditure for knick-knacks, to risk pregnant out of wedlock.
The urge to get the girls probably also originated from your relationship with your mother. Perhaps you have a great connection with the mother, and wanted the same bonding experience with your own daughter. But it could also be vice versa, you do not have a good relationship with your mother, so longed for a chance to fix it with your own daughter.
Beautiful relationship between mother and son
According to psychotherapist Dr. Nancy B. Irwin, healthy parenting involves a desire to raise a child, regardless of gender. "Just because you have never become a man, does not mean you can not raise boys are great," he said.
What parents need to be done when a child is nurtured to be the most fun. Later, he will fill the other vacancy in accordance with the personality, environmental, and social learning. Women also do not have to worry about the special relationship between mother and son, like the Oedipus myth, according to Debbie Mandel, MA, author of Turn On Your Inner Light: Fitness for Body, Mind and Soul.
"It is an opportunity to mold a child into a man who is sensitive, kind, and communicative," advises Mandel.
But, indeed, there are things that may not be aware of when having a boy. Some of them are:
1. Baby boys tend to be more easily cleaned when changing diapers. "Most first-time mothers who had boys feared they would hurt her baby, when they tried to wash the pieces of cloth attached to the penis baby," said Adie Goldberg, a clinical social worker and author of It's a Baby Boy!. How to clean up easy. Just lift the hood, then wash the head of his penis.
2. The boy has confidence physically. Boys will grow into a healthy child, because he will play games that require gross motor skills, like running, playing ball, scramble swing, even a fight. Even if the pitcher is more prominent fine motor skills, such as painting, dancing, or make a poem, he remains a child is confident with her body.
"Although most of the major achievements, such as walking, are likely to be obtained at the same time (between girls and boys) gross motor skills boys will thrive during the preschool. They will also begin to beat the girls in terms of physical ability , "added Kimberly Parker, a nurse and manager of clinical programs at the Child Health Promotion Wellness, Early Childhood, Children's Healthcare of Atlanta.
3. They are more motivated to explore their world. A noisy house will feel more alive, and a sign of a healthy relationship between families. Boys will always be expressive speech, shouting, or laughing out loud. There are times when you feel like a ship broken home, but calm. This is because the pitcher is exploring the objects around him.
"From the beginning, mostly young males moving more than girls," said Goldberg. "And they need more space to do so. This will not change even though he had grown, and she will feel very comfortable exploring their world, thereby disrupting your comfort zone."
4. They have a stronger emotion. When it comes to behavior, the boys at the age of toddlers will demonstrate a variety of surprises. "Generally, girls are believed to be more emotional than boys. But the boys are very young tend to have stronger emotions," says Parker. "They are more easily agitated, and difficult to recover."
Even so, when he was growing boys will be more difficult to express his feelings. Therefore, parents are often more difficult to defuse emotions, or find out what is bothering her son. "Boys are not just slower to talk than girls, their vocabulary is also more limited," added Parker.
5. Boys will protect. Although they are difficult to express his feelings through words, they are smarter expressed his affection for both parents and his brothers later. Her love for you will be so great, especially because he does not compete with the mother figure as well as girls. You will not criticize the boys because of the style of dresses that are too sexy, and so he still looked at as being the perfect mother. He also will do anything to protect you.
Parker reminded the parents about some facts related to differences in boys and girls. Each can have a unique personal than their same sex, especially when compared with children of different sexes.
Nevertheless, according to Parker, we also need to understand that boys and girls "programmed" differently from birth, and biological differences will be magnified by social and environmental change. Personally appreciate each child and provide opportunities for physical development and emotional needs met, is the best thing we can do to ensure the development of a healthy and happy.
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